When people force feed you and then complain that you're getting bigger or fatter. You know, just that common perfectionist Asian relatives who love nitpicking everything about you. It's just so frustrating reply
Don't worry, others feel the same way. Japanese for example, has been used as an aesthetic, like using Kanji wrong and it doesn't even make sense because they just used it clearly for aesthetic, like on clothes. It's not wrong to use the language on clothes if it's done right and it makes sense! Usually the Kanji used is translated into gliberish a...... 2 reply
do some people find it cringy when people use japanese terms when they're not actually japanese or have any relations to japanese culture besides anime? i'm not trying to gatekeep language or anything but is this just me going through a reddit phase bc shit. yall with the "xxx-chan~" usernames or w japanese as your names just sits weird w me. PLEASE someone tell me if this is just me. seeing the culture/language i grew up with turn into an aesthetic and trend just rubs me the wrong way. help?
When strangers come up to me and start touching my hair and asking if it's naturally curly. Like who tf are you and why are your dirty hands in MY HAIR!? reply
When my mom tells me to do something and ends up doing it herself, like, but why. Then she complaints about me not helping her to others and I can't even reply
This one time I was out at a party with some dudes, and we went to the cinema. I think it was late elementary or early middle school? We were just small kids back then. I remember liking a certain guy - and the day of the party is when I dismissed my feelings for him. >he spit popcorn and candy all over my hair.< I get he was a kid back then but lo...... 1 reply