it's fine to read and enjoy yaoi, as long as you're aware it isn't reality. like a lot of manga and anime, it's a hypersexualized representation about 90% of the time, and that's not even including all of the abusive and freakin weird tropes (i mean all the pedophillia phew) but regardless it's a form of media, and manga, no less.
when it does cros...... 1 reply
Yaoi fetishizing gay men is a percieved problem, not a real one. Yaoi readers aren't only straight girls. In fact, it originally had nothing to do with men, and was created by queer women to bypass gender roles and explore other types of sexuality. The real problem is that, like most other manga genres, nost content is supremely mysogynistic. 7 reply
finally - it's time for my unwanted opinions to shine -
Yaoi itself , in theory , isn't ' problematic ' . Gay men and BL is , in theory , a progressive art form doing well at presenting homosexual men , and portraying them in a good light -
I say in theory because we all know that's bullshit .
When people say you're fetishizing gay men , they're...... 4 reply
Great. Please make all porn illegal while we're at it.
Porn objectifies women - harms women. Where is the progress there?
Fujoshi aren't fetishizing gay men. We're looking at pictures.
We don't want to look at gay men. Gay men aren't sweeping romance stories and novels.
The lives of gay men aren't made difficult by chicks looking at photos.
They...... 4 reply
Hi, I'd love to hear thoughts on this statement: "Hey fun fact! Fetishizing gay men is disgusting and if you’re a fujoshi/ yaoi fan you should stop and realize you’re not representing or helping mlm correctly by posting your “uwu trash sinful gaybies otp” and only harms the community". I know this kind of topic has already been asked again, & again. I don't mean to start a shit storm cuz I know that can get ugly quick but, Im often really unsure where I stand on this. I'd really appreciate hearing other viewpoints.
To avoid being politically incorrect, I will avoid using terms like "slut" or "hoe" throughout my response. So here it goes:
Personally, I think it is not right to "make yourself available to multiple people at the same time". So hear me out, let's not involve religion, tradition, morals or any of that stuff, I'm just talking as a human being. If ...... 1 reply
I mean, being attracted to several attractive people at the same time is kinda normal, wouldn't you say? Like being attracted to celebrities in a way almost, except in real life. In the first place, "slut" is an offensive term, and it gives off the wrong vibe. The definition is, "a woman with many casual sex partners." There's nothing wrong with ha...... reply
Aren't we all???
But in my opinion, you can suck and fuck everyone you want, as long as you don't do them at the same time... I mean, polyamory is superbly good, Threesome is cute, Foursome is yummy, Orgy is eyecandy, and Gangbang is hella kinky, but cheating is where I draw the line. So I say, have fun, just don't cheat. 2 reply
I hate when people call girls/women who like having sex, sluts. My little sister is kinda like what you describe too (tho for her case this is apparently linked to her autism) and i hear my parents mostly my dad often call her a slut, I really hate that. when a boy/man likes sex its "normal" "in their nature" its just a social construct to me so no...... 1 reply
