wait so like i mostly refer reading shonuen ai rather than yaoi mostly for plot and stuff, is that feteshizing? and when i do read yaoi i mostly skip the "intimate" parts.... 1 reply
Cishets "fetishizing and comsuming lgbtq+ content" and "being a fucking dick to real lgbtq+ people" go hand in hand much better than you'd like to think.
Most homophobes don't think they're homophobic and nearly all fetishizers don't think they're fetishizing. Not hard to wind up being both. 1 reply
i keep seeing cishet people on this website being so insensitive. how r u going to constantly fetishize and consume lgbtq+ content and then be a facking dick to real lgbtq+ people. nobody is cancelling u bcs they r sensitive, ur a facking asshole. PLEASE call me back when u get hatecrimed for loving someone, or wanting to be yourself, or stuggle to figure out who your are for months or even years.
I feel like I’m going to get shit for saying this but— non-binary orientations exist. Calling yourself non-binary and gay or non-binary and a lesbian is misgendering yourself. A gay person is a *man* exclusively attracted to men. A lesbian is a *woman* exclusively attracted to women. The terms *for* NBLM/NBLW created *by* NBLM/NBLW are Trixic/F...... 2 reply
To the people who misunderstood when I said this, "A lesbian is not just about a woman attracted to another woman". I was not trying to decide anothers' sexuality for them. What I really meant to tell y'all was: "non binary people can also be a lesbian and it doesn't mean that they *themselves* are saying they're a man/woman, because they literally...... reply
I'm gay so maybe I'm ignorant about my own gayness? but I thought being gay or lesbian was basically the same thing as a straight relationship but just with two people of the same gender. So I don't really get how a lesbian or gay relationship is more than being attracted to the same gender. 1 reply
