Lazing

Correction: I do everything because my family would kill me if I didn’t   reply

I do something actually productive if I'm really bored i.e. Do my missing work or do my chores   reply

Sometimes i stare at the ceiling or stand up and sit down randomly when there's nothing to do. If it's particularly bad I'll walk downstairs then back up again for no particular reason. I also like sitting on the staircase sometimes.   1 reply

I believe you should be sort of neutral here. Whatever you do don't automatically disregard what the 'victim' has said, especially if the situation is really serious (like rape). You may end up looking like an arse if you do. If you have no obvious reason to distrust what the 'victim' is saying (i.e they're not untrustworthy and you don't know the ......   reply

Hmm, I think that of course we shouldn't blindly believe anyone, but at the same time, imagine finally opening up that you've been r*ped and everyone is like "yeah right, they would never do that to anyone, stop making things up" that would be really crushing for the victim. I believe that we should give both parties the benefit of the doubt. the a......   reply

i wouldn't say always but yeah i think you should believe the victim first   reply