Have An Unpopular Opinion

I mean there is a point where liking yaoi could be turned into fetishism like fuCKIng sAYING real life gay couples are like "a rEAl lIfe yAOI" or calling guys in a gay relationship "seme" or "uke" when really irl those things don't matter. One of my friends claims she likes yaoi but really she is fucked up in the head saying "I wish i could be a gu......   reply

FUCKING YES. It’s really fucking bad. Gay people are human beings. That’s dehumanizing. Real people are semes or ukes. Gay people aren’t yaoi characters.   reply

First of all you’re assuming their sexuality, then you’re shoving a sexual position and probably making them HELLA uncomfortable. I do sometimes try to guess people hobbies, habits, or traits even when I don’t know them, but that’s from me wanting to be a therapist place not me being a fucking fetishizer. It’s like how since I’m Asian e......   1 reply

I mean it's already weird calling other people top/bottom, what more if you call them uke/seme, /mostly/ a s3x label that is used for fictional characters. It's like your treating them like a mere Character for your little story, all in all it's weird and disrespectful But that's just my insight, it's probs better to listen to actual mlm people   reply

Someone's position in bed is none of your business stop asking about that shit. /srs   reply

YES it is that bad, u are fetishizing people quite blatantly at that point, it’d be creepy to anyone if they were labeled that way in real life, keep ur fiction to fiction and reality to reality   reply

i used mathaway, socratic, and some physics calculator thing ╮(￣▽￣)╭   reply