Discourse is unfortunately dominated by non-mlm people who think they know what does or doesn't harm mlm people, shut us (mlm people) down when we call them out, and when they finally manage to find one of the few mlm people who will side with them they put them on a pedestal and use them to try and invalidate the rest (majority) of us. It's genuin...... 1 reply
In my eyes, getting off to only the sex and not the actual relationship is fine, if you’re only there for some 2-D dick on dick, and couldn’t care less if they were gay, then cool, have at it!
But if you start looking at actual couples to have sex with or thinking you would want to be in that position in real life, they’re something seriously...... reply
I’ve read a lot of discourse on this subject over the years and for the life of me can’t find the Tumblr post that made it all click for me personally but the eye opening hypothesis is basically females have a hard time understanding or feeling comfortable with our own sexual desires. We all live in a patriarchal society where females are often...... 1 reply
Its literally the same as men getting off on lesbian porn, it only gets weird once people start saying gross shit like "uwu,my fave bottom owo" or something like that, or shipping people only for the fact there both of the same sex, stuff like that, if you're not doing anything that I've written down then you're good I guess lol reply
I am legitimately tired of this question. This always pops up and is getting fucking annoying. The people here do NOT care. Y'all always bringing shit like this on a manga site. We are here to read not to fucking judge someone's preferences. Fujos who don't fetishize REAL GAY MEN would still be called out for reading BL alone. BL can have some expl...... reply
Hey, if people are uncomfortable with you getting off on a very watered down version of their sexual life... Maybe don't do it? Yeah, you can read it, but maybe don't jerk off to it when ACTUAL GAY PEOPLE have said they don't feel comfortable with woman doing that?
Honnestly, I don't want the whole BL public to be seen as the female version of tho...... reply
if the bl we're talking about is yaoi, then I'm utterly confused. Isn't porn basically made for the purpose of getting off to? This is like saying writing on paper is weird and wrong.
If you're talking about a different thing, then i suggest to make your comment more clear than just beating around the bush. reply
