Have An Unpopular Opinion

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look at what this man said (might take a while for pic too load)

cis women are inherently mlm fetishizers, if you read BL, me a mlm has every right to think that you probably fetishize gay men or romanticize rape in m/m pairings

here are some red flags from a gay man who has been around the bl fandom for a year now.

- women on mangago who only read BL, or read BL more than 50% of the time.

- Women who use BL as a way to escape the male 'gaze' a lot of times they tend to project toxic behaviours in m/m pairings because it's okay since there is no woman in here, so they don't see themselves in the story

- straight women who say they hate yuri/gl

- cis women who wants me to be their gaybies/ask me personal questions ( top or bottom'

- women who use the ' nosebleed yaoi ' meme

- women who complain about a YURI/gl being written by a man, and then in the same breath loves BL/YAOI written by women.

- women who use the 'i'm lgbtq card' as a way to get away with fetishization.


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