They aren't strong. They are badly written characters written by authors who have sex fetishes and some very therapy worthy issues. After reading a certain amount of BLs, it becomes pretty clear most of these authors have never spoken to a gay man, that's how unrealistic and asspull their writing is. They basically write misogynistic f/m and replac...... reply
My top strong bottom, Jiang Luo from 'This thirst for survival' (I don't care if you've seen me post about this novel, it gets free publicity from moi). This is a bottom who shall not take any shit from anybody, top or otherwise. AAAnnnnnddd it's not 'cause the top is some sort of green flag puppy, but like straight up black flag kills people and s...... reply
You wanna know what the definition of a strong Uke is?
DR.SEOK
-has a defect which makes his body extremely weak, and I mean WEAK as in he can’t drink water too fast, coffee makes him sick, and riding in a car for a bit too long can kill him.
-yet still managed to have his mind clear through 3 kidnappings.
-got shot once
-got fingernail tortured,...... 3 reply
Unrealistically strong, I feel like they are written that way on purpose. To be idealized as the perfect doormat but also they secretly want everything that happens to them so *gasp* they were actually in control of the narrative the whole time, rather than the victim they were the mastermind, it's like a male Mary sue. IDK maybe im thinking too de...... reply
the bottoms aren’t ‘strong,’ they’re just written unrealistically to romanticize abuse. that's why some authors need to put their pens down instead of wasting their gorgeous art for a shitty plot smh
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I've been bed rotting the whole day and a thought occurred to me, ngl, BL bottoms are strong asf. Especially mentally. If I was the one always getting forced into dubcon sex by my partner, getting creampied despite saying no, has sex more times than we go on dates, has a partner who gets jealous at every interaction I have, has a partner who does stupid hurtful shit to get my attention, and not to mention all those toxic BL plots where they're constantly being put through shit just because they loved the ML? If a normal person was in their position they probably would've been suffering from depression and have gotten tons of health issues already
As someone with depression I go through this a lot. There are days where I don't want to do anything but just stay in bed and imagine away. It could be a depressive episode you're going through or just a bored day but what I recommend doing is forcing yourself to go outside more so you can get some vitamin D, which will give you a slight boost, and...... reply
:( I'm sorry this is happening, any chances you have depression or maybe something similar ?
seeing a doctor or a psychiatrist could be a good thing if you're able to 1 reply