I grew up with manga and will always love it. At the same time, for my “boys love” stories, I prefer the Korean ones. They are less stereotypical in my opinion. Yaoi manga has gotten a bit stuck in its form and telling, in my opinion. Manwha still feels new and fresh. When talking about yaoi or shounen ai that is :) 1 reply
If you're talking about the n-word and the fa word then you better stop. N***er came from the Latin and Old English words for black and f***ot probably(origin unclear) comes from how they called old ladies who gathered sticks f***ots as an insult and probably used it for homosexual men because of that.
Those words have history and were claimed bac...... 6 reply
Hii. Someone who reads Yaoi and shounen ai (BL) I dont find what people are doing offensive at all. Maybe you need to check why you feel so offended. I dont go by fujoshi because its still used as a derogatory term. They are only educating people on the history and factual meaning of the term. There was no need for you to go to there lengths to be ...... reply
"Just like in the past other words have been reclaimed by the people who were targeted"
You did not just try to include fujos in on that. Fuck all the way off with that bullshit. 3 reply
Not a psychologist or anything but that's usually how people who avoid their problems and hate having it brought up by someone whom you think "doesn't know anything" react to kindness.
I would know. reply
I don't think it's weird. I think it's being annoyed because they don't understand your humour (humor?) or because you haven't got to the level of relationship (platonic or not) where those questions can be asked or are relevant. reply
dunno if this is a place to say it but yall give good advice ¯_(ツ)_/¯ basically, i think i don’t like people who are too nice to me dunno if that makes sense lol but if someone asks me if i’ve eaten or drank or if i make a self deprecating joke (i don’t hate myself) and they tell me not to i just get really annoyed ?? like ik they’re looking out for me but i just want them to not ( ° ʖ °)
I don't react, I either just smile a bit or skip it. If it's actually sweet I just smile a bit as I do in all romances but if it's cringy I skip it because I can't handle that stuff. 3 reply
