Are you sure you aren't self sabotaging now? Did you really lose feelings, or are you so caught up in how great he is that you don't think you're worth his affections? If you really don't have feelings for him, the best thing to do would be to talk it out with him and express calmly and honestly how you feel. If you're unsure, that's another conver...... 1 reply
damn that’s messed up, but you can’t control your feelings. id say if you really care for them you’d let them know and move on instead of wasting their time. reply
Well, sitting down and having an honest conversation is always the best way to go. Breakups are never easy for people. Right now you're feeling guilty and that's fine, but just come clean. I also want to know what made you lose feelings for him that would probably help your situation. 1 reply
how do I tell a person that I lost feelings, even though I liked them first? like holy fuck they deserve SO MUCH better.
I wake up everyday with goodmorning texts, and go to sleep at night with goodnight messages. He randomly asks for my pictures and puts me in his stories. He doesn't hesitate to say my name whenever someone asks if he likes someone. Everyone knows how consistent, reliable, and how much of a green flag he is. He's such a sweet guy and I constantly self-sabotage EVERYTHING. The moment I knew it, I have already lost interest in us:< like I don't really like him as much as I used to before, you know? I don't feel the spark anymore.
You know I did quite the opposite. I genuinely told them to not get into BL. Guess what happened? They got into BL. So you can imagine the reaction I had after they told me how traumatized they were because they read The Orc bride I told you not to read that why did you even ask me about it? reply
Listen up, there are a lot of people in my generation that have student loans just because their stupid counselor only cared about the prestigious shit. My high school only cared about students going to University for reputation sakes and did not care about whether or not the student even has the financial ability to be able to afford or risk that ...... reply
This is going to be a long answer lol
1. Be kind to the people around you and in general (kindness is amazing and a wonderful thing), but don't be a pushover and you gotta learn to hold your ground when you need to.
2. Think ahead. Always try to imagine whatever big/mid decisions you make might lead to.
3. Study, learn to be clever, and think thi...... reply
Never do something because you feel obligated to do it. If you don't want to do it then don't. Also don't be pressured by those around you to choose a certain career, hobby or someone to hang out with. Enjoy what you want to enjoy and also say no to things you dislike reply