isnt fetishizing: (im not gonna list a lot im just putting 3)
- calling gay men "uke" "seme"
- shipping real people
- obsessed with gay men
and this is not fetishizing:
- reading bl because they like the genre or basically enjoy it
thats all i can think of LMAAOO 2 reply
Speaking as a gay man... it's not. It's a fictional setting with characters that really only vaguely resemble real life LGBT experiences.
I think the only way you get into fetishizing is if a fan (could be anyone tbh, cis straight girl or not) somehow super imposed this desire to see gay men with each other in real life despite the people in ques...... 1 reply
My first post here and it is on this oh my. Forgive me for any mistakes...it's 2 a.m. here but I hope I make sense.
Ok so this is not an attack on the OP in any way at all, but honestly, I wish I can Thanos erase the notion of bl = irl homosexuality from ppl's minds and the entire internet for all time lol.
I agree with the poster Whinnie here an...... reply
Ahhhh dam read this..also i hope things would work out for your family
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_sound_of_something_new/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kimi_to_houkago_haru_aoi/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bending_the_spoon/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ichi_ni_no_san/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/karasugaoka_don_t_be...... reply
wow i’m so happy for you :( coming out can be such a hard thing especially when it puts you in a tough situation so i’m glad your best friend accepted you and didn’t let your sexuality affect the relationship y’all have with eachother reply
Im happy for you! Your bestfriend sounds like a nice person.
I reccomend "Snail Pond Robber" and "Kisses x Kiss x Kisses". They are both fluffy and cute shounen ais reply
