Aro/Ace here! There was a time where when I was young I was questioning that I was Aro/Ace before starting relationship, I felt close to my ex so I accepted the confession while telling him I might be aro/ace. He didn’t take it well when I broke up with him, and subconsciously felt that he could change that? It made me uncomfortable, we left on ...... reply
i experienced something close to it. some random guy texted me and i asked who was he, he kept saying his bullshit and then said " btw, wanna date? i'll send you a nude and you will send one to me." i wasn't even replying to him. i refused and said that i'm not even interested in sexual/romantic things and do you guys know what he said? "don't worr...... reply
Honestly, I think it's a little shitty when they say that. But I can understand why they would confess knowing you are aro/ace. I think people confessing knowing that they're going to get rejected is just a way to move on. Hearing a rejection directly from the person rather than their own thoughts can really help someone move on and find confrontat...... reply
Do you feel annoyed when people confess to you after knowing you’re aro ace? I find it annoying because it lowkey makes me feel bad??? Especially when they say “you haven’t had romantic feelings but I can change that” like BRUH IT LITERALLY ISNT A CHOICE-
