I say seme and uke or mc and seme or their names if I can spell it right. Or I call them by their hair colours. Generally, though, seme and uke is just easier, especially when it's very smutty. reply
Sorry I didn't know that it was disrespectful, because I never really thought of it. I will stop calling people in BL mangas seme or uke, because thanks to this I realised how disrespectful it is to gay men. reply
fujoshis get so mad when you tell them this, they cant just call a character by their name but they have to call them by their sex position, annoying ass fetishizers reply