Okay.if you dont get too far into itto the point where you're slightly int it, like thats fetishzation. If you are straight then thats a problem apparently. Same with men. so both sides also deserve some. Im lesbian and i read yuri too. So Im confused now. if im lesbian and get off to lesbian porn its alright? I dont know i lost some braincells reply
this depends on the person but to me it depends on How you consume gay porn. if u only watch gay porn,, like ever,,, that sus,,, but as a wlw, i do not mind if a straight guy gets off w lesbian porn so long as he doesnt associate the porn or his feelings towards it with wlw in real life if that makes sense? and if i meet a man who occasionally does...... reply
Hm, but porn is about what parts turn you on though??Like, I don't think its particularly about whos doing the act by itself, more so what parts goes where. I mean, its porn, its not exactly supposed to make you comfortable, if you're feeling uncomfortable I mean don't watch it, sex or things of the like, should be done with full understanding and ...... reply
After seeing some stuff about fujoshi, and what fetishization means. So basically, if a female gets off to gay porn, that's bad? I don't understand that? So males are okay with getting off to lesbian porn? What?? I may just be misunderstanding this, but can someone clear this up for me?
Yes because the f slur has been historically used against anyone who likes the same sex. If a slur has been used to hurt you and people like you historically then you can reclaim it. reply
Probably the one time I asked my father jokingly how he would react if I got together with a girl, I knew that he was very homophobic like nearly everyone in my fam, but I didn't expect much cuz it was a joke, right? Nah, my father completely changed his tone and went on an agressiv rant how such a thing is disgusting and how god didn't intend such...... reply
I dont think it hurt, so much as it annoys me.
Me and my sister are very much not straight and we were talking to my mom about it. My mom accepts us 100% no matter what (unless of course we do something really bad). Anyway, I was telling my mom about how I'm pansexual and she goes "but I don't want you to limit yourself". I'm like what? I'm not li...... reply
"You see those people? Don't end up like them"
My parents said this to me long ago even before I found out about my sexuality. We were watching something about gay people. It's not really hurtful but it did make me scared of coming out. reply
I'm not really queer. It's just the devil deceiving me.
It's fine that I'm queer, as long as I don't hold hands with another girl, kiss another girl, sit too close to another girl, hug another girl, breathe in the same space as another girl.
'I just don't believe in that.'
'You just haven't met the right man.'
'At one point you're gonna want ki...... reply
