When they are constantly being dismissive of your personal interests and couldn't give a shit about your success but then bitch and moan when you don't devote your attention to them in the same way. reply
when someone asks me question abt smth experience blah blah* and then right after i answer them, they start talking about themselves like a straight up essay
*they wanted someone to ask that question but yk how it is... NOBODY ASKED 2 reply
Not listening to them. Constantly making their problems about you. Not supporting them. Belittling them or their interests. Not showing gratitude for their efforts. Not initiating outings or just plain conversations. Small details to show that you care.
Honestly these are things you pick up from others the more time you spend with them. And confro...... reply
i see this topic brought up especially in younger people but just remember that if there's something your friend is doing that you don't like, if you want to keep that person as your friend then you hold some responsibility in telling them what they're doing is counterproductive to your relationship with them. Otherwise you'll just make yourself su...... 2 reply
When they bring up issues with you passive aggressively but never directly to communicate with you about it.
When they care more about being right in the conflict rather than the wellbeing of the friendship.
When they’re grudge against you is only made known through hinted verbal attacks at your insecurities & vulnerabilities.
When they need y...... reply
I had a toxic friend. She always wanted to talk and never even pretended to be listening to me. She would always want my attention focused on her, she didn't even let me enjoy my free time because "you have to spend time with me, you always ignore me", needless to say I felt guilty and stopped doing what I was doing and stayed with her, but when I ...... reply
