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I need help
So earlier this year in February, this popular guy whom I used to be friends with asked me out. I said no because I had a habit of telling everyone no about everything. Like if my mom told me to do something, I would say no but I would still get up and do it. Well, I had to go to my class and he went to his and about 10 minutes into class I had finally realized what happened. So it was only natural that I'd develop a crush on him. And so a month later I had found out it was all a prank. I wanted to die because everyone in my grade was in on the prank, even someone who I thought was my friend. But even though I knew it was a prank, I still had feelings for him. Now it's already been several months and I figured my feelings for him would be gone. But just today I had to do a Zoom for my Living Environment teacher and said kid had his camera on and I saw him. I then realized that I still somehow have feelings. I don't know why or even how I can still like him but I do and I want to get rid of my feelings but I can't.
TL;DR - This guy asked me out several months ago but I found out it was a prank. And somehow I still have feelings for him.
Holly shit that’s so messed up. I would just distance myself form all of them, what they did was straight up cruel and not funny in any way. Real friends wouldn’t fuck over someone like that. And about still having feelings for the guy I don’t really know. You can’t specifically control your emotions so I’m not just gonna tell you to stop...... reply
Damn, that's horrible
Do this to him
It's amazing that you can still like the jerk, but honestly, he doesn't deserve you even if he's popular. You are so, so much precious than that guy or the rest who's in the prank
I'd say move on from that guy but that's difficult to do :( 1 reply
He doesn't deserve your love!!!!
For him to partake in a prank like that is so cruel, he's totally NOT WORTH IT.
I wonder, have you confronted him about what he did? You don't have to. But in my opinion, I'd say definitely do what you can (in your own pace) to slowly move on from him... you deserve much better...
Pranks like those are so damn crue...... 1 reply
What the guy did (and the fact that everyone else had joined in) is terrible, especially now since you've developed feelings. I'm probably not being very useful, but the best thing to do is to try to forget about him. He clearly isn't a good guy, not with playing a stupid prank like that. I'd say distract yourself, but it'll most likely come back a...... reply