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Lowkey need help awk situation with a guy
I honestly don't know how the question system works on here, where this will show up or if I'm even posting this in the right place but here goes nothing.
Last weekend I was at a houseparty, it was pretty small and everyone was outside. I was practically blackout when I started making out with this guy. I swear I only remember kissing three ish times but my friends told me it was more. Anyways in the past he was interested in one of my best friends, she only rejected him the week before, she said he weirded her out with how clingy he was. After that night he kept texting me about literally anything, starting with asking if I was hungover then just randomly about my day. It's been a week and I am about to see him for another party on Monday.
Any advice on how to make it clear I'm not interested? I don't want to be rude or jumping the gun I just want to make it clear I don't have feelings and never will.
Say you don't have feelings but when people are around you because being alone with him can be dangerous if he takes it the wrong way be cautious reply
I think you should tell him in a subtle way. I’m not really good at confrontation, so I would deffo tell him that I’ve fell for someone and that it’s just awkward for me to keep talking to him. Good luck tho. reply
Sometimes you just have to give it to them straight or say you're in love with somebody else. He's screaming real weird energy. I'm not sure about other ways just don't get caught up with creeps. Stay safe reply
Just be straightforward. "I apologize but I want to make it clear that I am not interested in you" You can lighten it up by reassuring him that you guys could stay as friends or something as well. As long as you don't accidentally give out the impression of anger or negativity, being straightforward is probably the best thing you can do.. reply
