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One and hope it'll be the last one

Kakun Kakun 2016-03-18 20:20:37 About long distant relationship
I had a long distance relationship for 7 years, our relationship lasted 10.
It was hard... and at the end, not having an honest communication and taking our love for granted was our biggest mistake.

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Miss Black March 19, 2016 1:28 am

Well I've never been in any relationship, but I' ve heatd many stories about this. Some of them were about a long - distance - relationship as well. Most of them ended after 1 year or 1.5 , because people thought that it was idiotically, but I think that it wasn't a problem. The problem was in their feelings towards another person. If you really love your partner and they love you in the same way, then you'd have stupid hope that you will meet again and you will get merried, live together, have children in future, etc. And this stupid hope will keep your relationship together (love too, of course)
I'm sorry if I'm annoying someone because I wasn't in relarionship and I'm talking about this as if I understand but.....think about this yourself as well.
Thx and see ya~

P.S.
10 years is really, really long time. Good luck!

Kakun March 20, 2016 2:44 pm

It isn't annoying for me :)
I appreciate your thoughts and lately I've realized that, eventhough I had believed I had no hope in our relationship, I really did, maybe that was what kept us together for so many years, but, well... nothing lasts forever or so those are my thoughts.
And love, yes, love also kept us together, but love changes and if we aren't capable of understanding those changes and how people does too, things might break... :/

Miss Black March 20, 2016 5:10 pm
It isn't annoying for me :) I appreciate your thoughts and lately I've realized that, eventhough I had believed I had no hope in our relationship, I really did, maybe that was what kept us together for so many ... Kakun

Yeah....nothing last forever, I learned that on my own, even when I am 14 y.o. I can say that I have long and terribly sad past behind me, but I have hope that I will have long and happy future. But lets come back to main topic.
And about love, what you said you have right and I forgot about this, that love can change. That's absolutely true, it can change in good way or bad way, but still it's our choise in which way it goes. I don' t blame you or anybody, it's just a little lesson ;).
Well I wish you good luck in the future and if you know that I jist remaind you: remember that past doesn't decide about the future, past only helps make decisions and helps to build the way you wants to go.
Still good luck and if you want to talk, catch me! It's a pleasure to chat with you! See ya~ ♡

Kakun March 20, 2016 7:09 pm
Yeah....nothing last forever, I learned that on my own, even when I am 14 y.o. I can say that I have long and terribly sad past behind me, but I have hope that I will have long and happy future. But lets come b... Miss Black

Yes! Don't lose hope, you will be happy, that's the attitude (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
Thank you for your wishes and words (づ ̄ ³ ̄)づ