I used to ship my two best guy friends with each other (I even wrote a fanfiction about them wtf) and now one of them surprisingly came out, but the other one is straight as an arrow. Well at least I can ship the other guy with his boyfriend now hehe
lol i have a lot of lgbt friends of me and they are so wonderfull...iam the straight person but since elementary iam have that kind of love "lgbt relationship" its ok hahahahahaha
shipping/pressuring real-life people into relationships is intrusive. I'm a fujoshi, and I understand how important it is to differentiate between how we treat fictional characters and actual real-life people. In particular real people who we interact with (aka, non-celebrities, actual friends/acquaintances). It's one thing to ship fictional characters/people you will never meet. But imagine if your friends/family/the people around you were actively shipping you into a relationship that went against your sexuality/personal inclination. Imagine if the people around you were fantasizing about you being in a relationship w/ someone you know but are not attracted to or interested it. That would be hugely uncomfortable.
ok but I was not shipping them for real though, it was all fun and jokes to tease them a bit. I would never ship people I personally know in real life. Well tbh, I don't ship anything at all seriously because that's just stupid.
Honestly if they were shipping me with other girls (I'm straight) I wouldn't really care. In fact I'd play along. Everyone around me knows I like guys so we'd know it was a joke.
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i have a lot of lgbt friends of me and they are so wonderfull...iam the straight person but since elementary iam have that kind of love "lgbt relationship" its ok hahahahahaha
shipping/pressuring real-life people into relationships is intrusive. I'm a fujoshi, and I understand how important it is to differentiate between how we treat fictional characters and actual real-life people. In particular real people who we interact with (aka, non-celebrities, actual friends/acquaintances). It's one thing to ship fictional characters/people you will never meet. But imagine if your friends/family/the people around you were actively shipping you into a relationship that went against your sexuality/personal inclination. Imagine if the people around you were fantasizing about you being in a relationship w/ someone you know but are not attracted to or interested it. That would be hugely uncomfortable.
ok but I was not shipping them for real though, it was all fun and jokes to tease them a bit. I would never ship people I personally know in real life. Well tbh, I don't ship anything at all seriously because that's just stupid.
Honestly if they were shipping me with other girls (I'm straight) I wouldn't really care. In fact I'd play along. Everyone around me knows I like guys so we'd know it was a joke.
lmao do they know you wrote a fanfic on them? If yes, have they read it?
Nah I never finished writing that fanfiction and it's good they don't know about it.... They would be grossed out for sure xD