i am 18 years old college student. i have never had a boyfriend in my entire life . I have 4 close friends. 3 Of them are in relationship. and the other one has a experience of relationship and is soon going to be in relationship too. And why am I not attractive to guys. Well my friends are all so cute and fashionable than me. Do I look uglier when i am with them who is just a regular girl. Well i know that is not the case .... But at this speed i will turn 20 soon, and i actually don't contact with any men expect my father.... Am I too shy...
its alright don't become like your friends just be the way you are and don't rush someone you will find compatible to you because i am the same as you so live your freedom that you have right now because someday you will find someone and if you didn't talk to me i am also available to be your friend but don't get depressed over these trivial things
I can offer a few tips, not sure they'll help but I'll be happy for you if they do.
1. Take care of yourself, and it's almost impossible to look ugly. Not everyone will think you're attractive, but if you at least try your best to take care of your health and hygiene, many people will.
2. You do actually need to talk to guys. Treat them like normal people, be kind, forgiving, and considerate, and they'll at least like being around you. When you don't interact with others, it doesn't make you less attractive, but it definitely makes you super hard to notice.
3. There are easy pain-free ways to meet guys. Try to involve yourself in social gatherings that force interaction, like playing board games or studying. These kinds of things take the hard "just talking" part out of interacting with people, because it makes you talk about something less abstract. If you are religious, there are tons of young adults groups through churches, which is also an easy way connect with a lot of people.
4. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Your close friends know you better than I do, and can probably give you much better advice.
5. You're much better off with no boyfriend than a sucky boyfriend. It's not wrong to be picky. Don't be unrealistic, but definitely be a little picky.
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its alright don't become like your friends just be the way you are and don't rush someone you will find compatible to you because i am the same as you so live your freedom that you have right now because someday you will find someone and if you didn't talk to me i am also available to be your friend but don't get depressed over these trivial things
I can offer a few tips, not sure they'll help but I'll be happy for you if they do.
1. Take care of yourself, and it's almost impossible to look ugly. Not everyone will think you're attractive, but if you at least try your best to take care of your health and hygiene, many people will.
2. You do actually need to talk to guys. Treat them like normal people, be kind, forgiving, and considerate, and they'll at least like being around you. When you don't interact with others, it doesn't make you less attractive, but it definitely makes you super hard to notice.
3. There are easy pain-free ways to meet guys. Try to involve yourself in social gatherings that force interaction, like playing board games or studying. These kinds of things take the hard "just talking" part out of interacting with people, because it makes you talk about something less abstract. If you are religious, there are tons of young adults groups through churches, which is also an easy way connect with a lot of people.
4. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Your close friends know you better than I do, and can probably give you much better advice.
5. You're much better off with no boyfriend than a sucky boyfriend. It's not wrong to be picky. Don't be unrealistic, but definitely be a little picky.
well, you have encouraged me so much .... I also think so .....But maybe i needed an advice (▰˘◡˘▰)
I'm glad it was encouraging at least, and I wish you the best (: