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I'm a 22 y/o virgin who wants to lose it badly...
So I've been thinking a lot lately about losing my virginity, I'm 22 and I really want to do it. But the problem is that I don't have anyone do it with, I don't want to lose it with someone I know because that would mean telling them that I'm a virgin and I don't want any weird look or whatever, and waiting for a serious relationship is hard! I've never had a boyfriend or anything like that and I'm afraid that I'll never find someone. Soooo should I do it with a stranger or what do you guys think?
You could make sure your hymen was broken using a toy (Mine was already broken the first time I officially had sex, from a guy with looong fingers), and not tell the person you know it's your first time, unless you feel like it. reply
23 yo virgin here. There is no shame about being a virgin. People won't give you weird looks if they know either.
Personally, I'm not in a hurry to lose my virginity, so I'm waiting to get a boyfriend. Being a virgin doesn't change anything in my life and I'm pretty open about it with my friends. Nobody cares.
If I wanted to lose my virginity to ...... reply
I lost my virginity at 20 with a one night stand whose name I don’t know. Personally, I don’t think sex is a big deal and losing my virginity wasn’t a special thing to me. If it is a big deal to you, then I wouldn’t recommend doing it with a stranger.
I don’t think it’s even necessary to tell them you’re a virgin, don’t know why t...... 1 reply
If you’re a 22 yo virgin, you probably aren’t an extroverted person who is the center of attention. 1st time with a stranger would probably not be the best fit for you mentally. If you have guy friends, if one’s interested and you don’t find him a turn off then you should explore the physical, as well as emotional connection thing. Unless y...... 2 reply
If you're serious about losing your "virginity" and don't want to do it with someone you know then hit up a dating app like Tinder or something. This is the 21st century! It's not that hard to meet someone new and fuck them. Although, I will say most people would probably want to lose their first time to someone they like or Luv or LOVE. My persona...... reply
I wouldn't recommend doing it with a stranger. My friend did when she was drunk and she said she regretted it immensely. On the other hand, I see where you're coming from, and I completely agree. I wouldn't want to have sex with people I know unless I feel absolutely comfortable with them, something that rarely happens. If you have a friend like th...... reply
I think it's better to do it with someone you know, at least this way you have a kind of trust or security. I understand you're feeling. I'm a 26 year old virgin! Last year i was willing to do anything to have sex. I came so close but i didn't. I felt disconnected with they guy i was seeing (for that reason), and whom I didn't know before! Whatever...... reply
