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Calling all aro ace peeps
Do you feel annoyed when people confess to you after knowing you’re aro ace? I find it annoying because it lowkey makes me feel bad??? Especially when they say “you haven’t had romantic feelings but I can change that” like BRUH IT LITERALLY ISNT A CHOICE-
Honestly, I think it's a little shitty when they say that. But I can understand why they would confess knowing you are aro/ace. I think people confessing knowing that they're going to get rejected is just a way to move on. Hearing a rejection directly from the person rather than their own thoughts can really help someone move on and find confrontat...... reply
i experienced something close to it. some random guy texted me and i asked who was he, he kept saying his bullshit and then said " btw, wanna date? i'll send you a nude and you will send one to me." i wasn't even replying to him. i refused and said that i'm not even interested in sexual/romantic things and do you guys know what he said? "don't worr...... reply
Aro/Ace here! There was a time where when I was young I was questioning that I was Aro/Ace before starting relationship, I felt close to my ex so I accepted the confession while telling him I might be aro/ace. He didn’t take it well when I broke up with him, and subconsciously felt that he could change that? It made me uncomfortable, we left on ...... reply
