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To all the LBGT+ people here
I'm not trolling. I am generally curious because there are alot of insane homophobic people out here. When you see someone you are attracted to; Do you approach them and hope that they are gay as well? Are you cautious about who you approach? Or do you use dating apps? Or meet people at clubs and stuff? How do you personally go about dating? If you are interested in dating. If this is offensive I'm sorry. I just want to get someone else's point of view on life.
Step 1) Get a crush on a pretty girl
Step 2) Approach girl
Step 3) Ask girl if she listens to girl in red
Step 4) She doesn’t
Step 5) Shes straight
Step 6) Cry a lot while listening to girl in red (sweater weather also works, on occasion)
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im an useless lesbian who either falls in love with someone who lives 500 miles away or just stares at their crush hoping that they can read my mind because i'm too scared to take the first step and just assume they are straight (which is the case most of the time) 3 reply
I’ve never really used a dating app, but I only flirt with someone if I know they are gay, even if I’m really attracted to them. I don’t want to get hate crimed lol. I used to date straight men back when I didn’t understand my gender identity & that was the only time I would approach anyone. The women I’ve dated have always made it clear ...... reply
I usually make friends with them, we start to hangout and spend time together and then sometimes we end up dating. To me its not different compared to straight relationships. Love is love, it happens and everyone feels it regardless of gender. reply
i have an insane gaydar so sounding people out has never really been a problem for me. whenever i have an interest in someone, it just so happens that they’re never straight. reply
I'm pansexual, and the only people I've ever been romantically attracted to have been friends. I don't act on it because I don't want to risk ruining the friendship we have. This second part may sound weird, but I'm trans and I don't want someone I care about to have to deal with the issues that may come from dating a trans person. 1 reply
It’s either a hot girl I have to force myself not to like because I’m too scared of them rejecting me or worse outting me that said I’ve been in a relationship with a girl who I met through a gay man it’s safe to say that most queer people have queer connections and that’s how mostly lgbt+ people get together in my opinion. In terms of ap...... reply
i stare and admire from afar every day bc the girls i've liked have always had girlfriends and are still not over them :) ive just been lucky enough to like girls that also like girls reply
uhm, well, it’s hard to explain. usually, when i have a crush it just stays as a crush because i’m scared of ruining relationships, and it eventually goes away (the crush). but those that develop into something more, i’m not really sure how they start? i guess we all, more or less, just know when someone is not entirely straight. personally i...... reply
First, I just want to say that having a gaydar isn't really a thing because you're going to be wrong wayyy more often than right tbh . And although I haven't dated anyone because I'm pretty shy hehe, I have quite a few queer friends who have. Most of them take a more cautious approach of dating people who they know in real life and who go to the sa...... reply
