MULTI-RECOMMENDATIONS PLS!

straight romance recs
-the fl isn't constantly getting saved by the ml or the fl isn't constantly dependent on the ml (it's hella annoying and preferably no smut)
-the ml isn't a cold hearted wannabe badass
-possibly some josei
-softer ml x nonchalant fl

lgbtq recs
- the top doesn't treat their s/o like shit
-couldn't care less about smut
-really wanna read some mangas with trans rep

i also would like some psychological and seinen recs
-i don't have any preferences for these

(i asked in this type of question because these are seen more often)