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Should I drop my friend?
So I have this friend, and we both read yaoi, and I have this uncle that's gay and he has a boyfriend. The problem here is that my friend fantasizes about my uncle and his bf having sex together. It really disturbs me, cause sometimes she'll tell me detailed stories about her fantasies. I don't want to hear about this type of stuff nor think about it. I've tried telling her to stop but she just doesn't listen. I've thought about dropping her and just leaving her but we've been friends since we were eight so I'm not sure if i should. I wanted someone else's opinion on this, so I went here. Though it might not be much help since this IS an illegal manga reading website with 90% of the the stories being yaoi. But it still doesn't hurt to try.
I think it would benefit you if you tried to tell her how you feel about her saying those things. Even though you told her to stop, it may not have gotten to her. If you explain to her why you don't like it and she still continues to fetishize gay relationships, then you should probably tell her that you don't want to be friends with someone that d...... reply
Have a really serious talk about this with her. If still doesn't work, then drop her. And no need to feel guilty about it, just because a friendship last for years doesn't mean it'll last forever. As we grow older, we change and things and people we used to like also change, that's completely normal, so a relationship that started as a child most o...... 2 reply
I feel like she doesn't respect you or your family. She's crossing a boundary that shouldn't be crossed but doesn't seem to care. I would cut her off if I were you because she isn't acting like a true friend should. Her mindset seems toxic. reply
You should talk with her first. You have a long friendship with her and it seems so rushed to just drop her. People can learn and maybe she’s just in this ‘phase’. Some people just need a little help to guide them. reply
just tell her you are really uncomfort with her detailed fantasy story, if she doesn't listen yet just leave then. issa bullshit that's called a friendship but you not comfortable with her. tbh it's up to you, yourself is priority dear. reply
Thats not cool, you should def drop her thats really fucking creepy to dream about someones relatives and fantasize about them with nasty fetishes. Whats worse is she litterally thinks its okay to do that, im sad girls like that are excused of borderline perverted creepy behavior just because their girls. She gives me vibes of a sexual assualter. reply
