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Should I drop my friend?
So I have this friend, and we both read yaoi, and I have this uncle that's gay and he has a boyfriend. The problem here is that my friend fantasizes about my uncle and his bf having sex together. It really disturbs me, cause sometimes she'll tell me detailed stories about her fantasies. I don't want to hear about this type of stuff nor think about it. I've tried telling her to stop but she just doesn't listen. I've thought about dropping her and just leaving her but we've been friends since we were eight so I'm not sure if i should. I wanted someone else's opinion on this, so I went here. Though it might not be much help since this IS an illegal manga reading website with 90% of the the stories being yaoi. But it still doesn't hurt to try.
If I were you then YES I would definitely drop her I will tell her to stop but if she doesn't I will tell her that if she doesn't stop I'll stop being her friend and if she STILL doesn't stop then that's a goodbye why do I want to be friends with someone that sexualizes someone that I love and care for she really needs to know the difference betwee...... reply
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Personally, I think she's just immature, the fact that you both read yaoi probably makes her think it's normal to "fantasize about gays" with you even if it's about your uncle and his bf, if it was me, I would explain to her that it's not correct. Tell her to stop and that it would probably make her uncomfortable if you talk...... reply
Try to get through to her and tell her it’s not right to fetishize a real-life gay relationship. If she doesn’t care for your feelings then it’s probably not worth keeping the friendship. You’ll meet many other people throughout your life and become friends with them.
It’s one thing to ship two people together irl or secretly want them ...... reply
I mean, she obviously is in the wrong for acting like that but if you really care about her (not talking about the time you've known her, don't feel pressured about that), then you should try again to make her understand what she can say in front of you or your uncle. It's not like you can controls what she'll think about !
In any way good luck to...... reply
Tell your friend it very uncomfortable to you and she shouldn’t think like that if she doesn’t listen well leave that bitch because she not worth it. 1 reply
yeah i honestly think you should, because 1) just fantasizing about someone's relative and then telling that person about it is REALLY WEIRD, and 2) the fact that the girl is trying to push her yaoi fantasies onto like rl gay ppl is rly problematic :| 2 reply
