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I hate my family
they kept making fun of me for not liking hugs and that I was clearly uncomfortable with them and my brother kept chasing me for a hug and they were laughing and I was crying so I threw something at him and my mom started screaming in my face taking my phone and shit saying that it’s not okay and I need therapy and that I’m a psychopath while I was just crying standing there and my brother came and he was like it’s fine I don’t care but she kept screaming at me in my face and now their all downstairs and I can hear them saying I’m crazy and I should be locked up. opinions?
im so sorry you had to go through that! your feelings are completely vaild and you shouldn’t have to feel like you need to like hugs. being uncomfortable is completely fine and youre not crazy, its normal! reply
I'm not a professional of any sort (so do not take me at my word), but it sounds like you might be mildly autistic/AS like me. not enough to need a therapist. one thing you're ABSOLUTELY NOT is a psychopath. your batshit mother on the other hand... reply
Your entire family is fucked up if they don’t see the problem. If you are uncomfortable with something, they shouldn’t force you to do it. Screaming in your face for refusing your brothers hugs is dramatic and she shouldn’t fucking do that. My opinion? I hate your family already. reply
Okay, fuck your family. I know it’s really hard but try not to internalize what they say. They are wrong about you. You aren’t psycho, they are. It’s healthy for you to maintain your boundaries. If they can’t respect that; that’s on them, not you.
My family does the same thing where they talk shit about you when you leave the room. What ...... reply
Idk what that says
Ok but my grandma is transphobic... I’ll come out later then
My mom says I’m fine.. I was just crying for 10FUCKING MINUETS WHILE YOU WERE RIGHT THERE and uhh.. they don’t hear shit I say... so yea I feel you reply
Bruh. My parents say that 24/7. Ya living on their money dude. Ya basically in debt. They laugh let them. Later live ur life all free and fuck whoever. I personally think ur question is idiotic. Plus if the problem is too much, I recommend earplugs, music, lots of reading and exercise. It works for me. reply
Sometimes you go through terrible things but these terrible things don't last forever. You can't ever give these people the opportunity to put you away. Nobody knows if they'll really do it or they're just shit talking you but for your future, you need to hold in any urges. I believe that as shitty as it is, having this experiences help you recogni...... reply
