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TW: Bullying, Manipulation
So basically I have friends who'd make fun of me for my interests and belittle me for them. I started changing completely and tried to fit in. I kept my interests a secret and told no one, because I had went through humiliation by my relatives and developed trauma from it. I tried my best, but I just got manipulated by them. They said they'd kill themselves if I left or start a fight with me if I left. I stayed and my emotional state had gotten worse and I was basically living horribly because all they wanted me for was support and to feel better about themselves. Yesterday I cut of everyone who made me not myself and just made me feel horrible about myself.. Did I do the right thing?
yeah, you need to drop those toxic people. using suicide to guilt trip someone is disgusting. way back, i used to also have a pretty toxic circle of friends, it was one of the wost periods for my emotional state, but i moved away and haven't been in contact with them since, i am much happier now. reply
There is no easy answer but I would say yes.
People like this aren't good for you and your mental health. Manipulation is a no go. It is better to get out of manipulation.
I hope it will be better for you now. Don't let anyone keep you down. reply
You did great. Even though it might have FELT not that great, it was the best thing for you. The stuff you described sounds very, very unhealthy and incredibly taxing and I’m proud of you for taking the initiative to yEET outta there. I hope you never find yourself in one of those situations again, have a cookie child you deserve it for gettin th...... reply
I literally about to kiss all of you, but seriously thank you for the reassurement and I'm sorry that some of you went through the same thing. I feel a bit better now I hope you guys have an amazing day :) reply
