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Finding your sexuality

Weiwei Weiwei 2018-03-16 04:35:17 About finding the sexuality
Hey guys I am just wondering about something and it's giving me a headache for a long time.
Lately whenever I watch porn, I always keep my eyes on the girl and not the guy.Just her moans and expression turn me on.
So does this mean that I am not straight? or something like that? Kindly help.

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Buji March 16, 2018 11:06 pm

Sorry, messed up some lines
I talked to my other friend about the situation, who I'm still best friends with today. He was the one who made me see that, "it doesn't make a difference you're into, you're still you"


The guy that I was interested in, it was a long distance thing and we felt like it wasn't working out, and ended up growing apart.

But even after that being the case, I've only really dated women still, since it's harder for me to be romantically and sexually attracted to the same sex

Buji March 16, 2018 11:02 pm

I always say, "everyone is a little gay"
But just because you like that, doesn't necessarily mean you are into the same sex. You may just like the act and sounds of sex, and hearing their pleasure gives you pleasure as well, but doesn't mean you necessarily want to date only women.
Even if you find out later down the line that you really are interested in women and want to date them and feel them, don't be ashamed.

I was talking to a guy a long time ago, who was very feminine in the way he did things, but not the way he looked, and he wanted to be with me, and after a while, I wanted to be with him too, but I felt conflicted since I wasn't sure what I was or what I should do. I was afraid of being judged and I talked to my best friend about it and all he said is, "yeah, and? Do what makes you happy"

Though in the end, we didn't date, and we lost communication in each other.

But yeah, don't be afraid of anything, real friends won't judge you, and you'll always be yourself. Just don't try to hide from yourself

Weiwei March 17, 2018 5:15 am

Thanks that realy helps (=・ω・=)

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