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My friend who suddenly wants me back
My best friend of 10years one day suddenly decided to stop being my friend and distanced herself. It broke my heart. But then suddenly after 4 years of silence she calls me and wants us to be like we used to. Idk what to do please help me out
Umm be wary of her but don’t push her away because she might have gone through something hard, so she had do distance herself from you. I’m speaking from experience here, when I was going through a hard time and I almost lost all of my friends, I tried to distance myself from them, I wasn’t thinking straight because of my depression, stress a...... 1 reply
Bro write a novel on that, it'll be a blast-
Ok I'm sorry, I've never been in these situations before and have no idea. Just waiting for some helpful answers to trickle in for you.
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Ask her why she ghosted u and if u dont like the answer just get away from her ghosting is also a toxic trait and she done it for 4 fuckin years ma dear but even of u like the answer tell her that u cant be like u used to be and the reason is her choices
Ps: she may just want to be friend with u because of covid u know dont let your guard down e...... 2 reply
i would still be her friend but will not be as close as we were bcs I mean for four years you were ghosted , she may have gone through something but like that what friends are for to tell each other what they're going through so you can help them 1 reply
Damn this sound so similar to what happen to me.. She apologize and told me why she did that in the first place.. I forgive but things wont just be like before.. The damage has been done i mean we can still talk normaly i guess? But not as before. I no longer have the same energy and understanding to talk to her like before (lowkey blaming my pride...... 1 reply
uhm maybe ask them why they wants to be back to being friends again and why they even decided the break the friendship in the first place? they might just want something from you. if you do want to restart the friendship i suggest going slow because its kinda sus that they want to restart the friendship all of a sudden. 1 reply