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Anyone 22 & virgin?
I just turned 22 this January. When i read mangas the idea they give off about having sex is really beautiful & pretty but when i think of it in real i find it really disgusting. I feel really insecure about my body cuz its really different what movies & mangas show the " beautiful body" type. Im scared of men in real . i see men nothing but cheating machines or horny 24/7 . Men that see nothing but to satisfy themselves. In mangas mls see feelings beyond the sex. It terrifies me that I'll never to able to get that intimacy with feelings. Its really hard for someone who has terrible trust issues , crippling anxiety & insecurities. Y'all can share your experiences if you don't mind.
1. You don't HAVE TO have sex, actually. If you feel like you have sexual desires, however, it's different, but it's not an obligation. Asexuals, sex-repulsed and low libido people exist.
2. Not all men are trash, but I perfectly understand what you're trying to say. Lots of them indeed cheat, but some of them can be good partners.
3. Finding som...... 2 reply
I'm not 22, but I am a virgin. And based off the experiences of my siblings and non virgin friends, sex you see in manga is mostly glorified. Not every irl sex is going to be joyous and not every sex irl feels good as soon as you get that dick. Unfortunately, I can't help you with your body insecurity problem as I too am hella insecure about my bod...... 1 reply
genuinely asking do u think you'd be okay with girls or something like that ?(*not lesbian porn that's bullshit real sex isn't like that, it's just for male viewing purposes , i guess like yaoi or gay porn directed towards women)
also it's okay everyone thinks like that , everyone is anxious even though they don't show it. Plus have u considered u ...... 2 reply
Hi!
I just wanted to say two things that could seem very cliché but sound right to me: first, I felt the same way about sex in real life and sex in literature and cinema, because I tended (and still quite do) to be afraid of what men really thought and as I was very insecure about my own body, I couldn't imagine that someone would really want it ...... 1 reply
