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can you guys help me?
so i have this guy bsf for like a year now and a few months ago he confesses that he liked me. Although he was rushing things and kept asking if i wanted to be his gf, i rejected him politely. He moved on from his confession but we don't have the same kind of relationship we had before his confession. I messaged him earlier and his answers were a lot shorter and colder. I want to have the friendship we had back then but idk how to talk to him.
Yeahhhh I've been there three times before aha . .
use my secret technique of pretending like it didn't happen, and eventually it'll go back to normal after some time.
fake it til you make it
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sis i dont think thats possible like one of my bros confessed to me recently ( i rejected him sis i just broke up with my gf ) and even tho im not awkward or anything and act normal as usual ( same goes to him ) our relationship keeps on becoming more distant- reply
My guy bsf confessed to me, and I turned him down. We actually grew rlly close after that, kinda like we didn’t have any secrets with eachother. He became like my only friend. So yeah it’s possible.
it rlly depends, honestly we kinda joke ab it now and then... like “remember that time you asked me out.”
“Yeah can’t believe I even fell...... reply
Yeah, I'm been in a similar situation a few months ago. He confessed and I turned him down. He said he needed some time alone to handle his feelings which I totally understood. After about a month we started hanging out again and now we are acting ''normal''. Basically, we do not touch about the subject love or anything like that and I do not think...... reply
bruh aint possible at all ╮( ̄▽ ̄)╭ like i had my best friend for years confess to me every freaking year and i just dont like him at that way but people around us keeps on pestering but i still stayed true to my feelings and then i rejected him straight out cause i found kim namjoon hahah lmao and it turned into disgust afterwards reply
thank you for all your advice I'm too lazy to reply to all of the answers so i hope y'all would see this I'll try to do all of them before we grow more distant♀️ reply
IDK man, some guys just drop you if they understand you won't fuck them, which I find super weird... You could try and ask him, there's a chance he's "just" heartbroken. 1 reply