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Fetishization
If you think this topic has been repeated too many times then just don't fucking read this.
Its natural for a cishet woman to find an Male x Male relationship attractive. But lots of females become obsessive to the point that its wrong. You'll notice that you most probably subliminally glorify mlm, assign heteronormative gender roles to men in gay relationships, associate them with a "ukes" or "semes", believe in offensive stereotypes, etc. Leaning in favor of mlm is basically objectifying.
Its dehumanizing. Its not supportive. Its unhealthy misrepresentation.
There is a whole genre and fandom created by primarily women based off of homosexual erotica. I find this to be gross in itself. Recently there was a post wherein the OP stated that she wanted to know what an "uke's" moan sounds like so she watched gay porn. And she just asked other fujoshis if they do the same. THIS. This is the reason gay men (and lots of others) are against fujoshis. Its so fucking uncomfortable.
LGBTQ+ people are still fighting for basic human rights. Fetishising a marginalised community- do you really not see what is wrong with that? If you don't then it just shows your privilege. You are in no position to argue with us on our issues because you ARE the issue.
yeah cause watching gay porn definitely hinders your fight for human rights, asians are fetishized, but i don't see people bitching about it while being jumped in the streets
gay porn is porn, doesn't matter who is in it
minorities are highly sexualized, but what can you do? its porn bruh different people get off to different things
its different i...... 6 reply
Porn is porn. Straight porn,gay porn,lesbian porn. Everyone can watch what they want to watch. The literal purpose of porn is to make someone horny,aroused.I watch all sorts of porn and what about it? 1 reply
most of the people arent getting my point. in my 4th para i called out a user because she made it publically known that she gets off to gay porn. i literally dont care if you do it in private.
but what the fuck goes through your minds to think that posting it on the internet is okay. if a gay man would read that, they'd feel disgust and feel explo...... reply
I’m mad at the replies so I’ve decided to answer myself . OP is absolutely right, no one should fetishize a sexuality, it’s degrading. See, a lot of ppl say that you’re supposed to fetishize porn, and that porn is porn, but the fact that LGBTQ+ Only rlly gets representation in porn is degrading to LGBTQ+. It’s hard that the only media tha...... 1 reply
Wow, some of the replies are so stupid. Its clear they read this with the intention of not listening to you and just defending mlm fetishists. Thats probably why most of them are nitpicking what you said word by word.
Rather than acknowledging the many things you've stated correctly that are problematic, they are making out for this post to mean s...... 1 reply
So you have "issue" on them? Is it bad to fetish this and that. Let say it their own hobbies... let them be it their own life not yours tho. It not like u can Stop them fetishing this and that... 2 reply
I agree with you saying fetishization is wrong, and that the thought of that topic is something you despise and find utterly low, but please, don't slander them so much. Although human beings may not be able to leave the guilt they have gained, but I'm pretty sure they will apologize when they know what they did was incorrect. I've seen a lot of "U...... 1 reply
Totally! I agree, becaue I find it comical that people are getting mad at a generalization of bl readers rather than actually helping to solve issues in the first place. They say they are not apart of such a group, but they turn around and are complicit in such issues because they believe it doesn’t involve them therefore, they are not apart of t...... reply