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I know its weird to ask this in a website like this. But this is the only thing i could think of
Soo... Here's the thing.
I'm a girl. The thought that I want to kiss a girl comes to me sporadically as a ever since i became a teen. I never thought about kissing guys though.
Now im 18 and I like the thought of marrying a girl in the future and I dont mind having sex with a girl. The thought of marrying a guy feels weird and mind you real life PP (I saw them in the illegal looking websites where we read raws) look scary and ugly.
But here's the thing I dont think I ever had a crush on anybody. Well there was this one boy i wanted to hold hands with when I was a child that's it. I dont think i've been sexually or romantically attracted to anybody... I don't even know what sexual attraction feels like. The definition of sexual attraction itself is confusing.
I keep telling myself that im Bi because I have never dated anybody and will never know untill I do. Heck i haven't even kissed anyone yet. Is it right to do that?
Hi there!
Calling yourself bi is completely fine. You can also say that you're questioning your sexuality. As far as you know, you've had "attraction" to both males and females.
Sexuality is a very nuanced thing. It's not black or white. To me, it sounds like you may just have a very low sex drive. Since the idea of sex doesn't seem to turn you on...... reply
I think it's alright to do that. It's great that you're questioning who you are. It's really great to learn new things about yourself. It's possible you could be in the asexual spectrum. Or maybe be aromantic. I think you should stick with the label that makes you feel the most comfortable for now. Although, just because you haven't dated anyone do...... 1 reply
of course, just experiment. you dont necessarily need a label to define yourself life is an experience, this is your journey to self discovery, enjoy it. reply
