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I feel like minors should not be on this site reading 18+ stories because when I was a minor the stuff I read(BL) greatly impacted my view in a negative way that affected other people especially in the LGBT community and I was blinded of how I fetishized gay men. I'm now part of the community myself so I got to see what i did was gross
I feel hypocrital saying this since I'm a minor myself who reads 18+ material but I agree, the majority of mlm fetishizers are little girls who's only knowledge on mlm is the bl they read. Literally go on any tiktok or youtube video that has to gay asian men or any gay couple and you'll see them in the comments talking about bl. 1 reply
most of the minors on here are actually educated enough to think about this stuff because ik i don't fetishize gay men and a whole bunch of minors on here don't it's 2021 things are different. But half of the users on here are minors. and you can't really stop us from reading here but ya know whatever ig i do see your point tho 1 reply
I am a gay man and personally I don't mind fetishization cause I could care less what other people do/think or whatever. But I still think its not the best thing. Anyways I think what needs to be talked about more is why is rape such a prominent theme in BL. (I don't know how to word this next part without it sounding strange but I'll try) What's e...... reply
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“I’m also a minor but-“
The term ‘minor’ is way too broad and generalized that it’s very ineffective at addressing the issue. If you are a part of the LGBT community, you should understand that EVERYTHING is on a spectrum. Definition of a minor (in accordance to google): “a person under the age of full legal resp...... reply
NO LITERALLY ive never fetishized gay people bc i always knew i was somewhere in there but these kids dont understand the impact this is gonna have later on in the future and the thing is is that they think they’re so edgy too like reply
well uh.. im 13 and i understand that other minors fetishize the LGBTQ community, but i don’t. im sure not all of them, i don’t really read yaoi and i mostly read isekais (and yuris too). they’re just interesting reply
I’m a minor but I know better than to think of gay guys like the ones in yaoi and shounen ai. I may daydream a lot but I’m not gonna compare them to yaoi. 1 reply
Honestly, if anything I'm also being hypocritical about the topic at hand since I am also currently a minor, however, it just depends on the kind of person the child is. It really is an impossible reality to not have any children on the app, however, the perception and how well a child understands does need to be taken into consideration. Like ther...... 1 reply
lmao, I started reading shit like yaoi around 11 or 12, i'm 15 now. I don't fetishize gay men nor have I ever to my knowledge. Let's be real here for a second just because it says 18+ isn't gonna stop anybody under the age. No point in worrying about something that will never change. 1 reply
