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This's gonna be polemical
I saw that a lot of people dislikes that the mc in bl sometimes says they are straight even though they like the other guy, but in my opinion it isn't that off. I'll explain: imagine that you're lesbian, but one day you fall for a guy and you end up having a relation with him, but anyways you still like girls and not boys (you only like your boyfriend) in that case you probably would be lesbian.
A lot of people is going to call me bi/pan-phobic for this, and I'm ready for all the hate.
At the end of the day if you like the bi label then use it, and if you prefer the gay label then use that one instead. Labels are supposed to make you feel comfortable, so if it's good for you then it's okay
Labels are supposed to make you feel comfortable but are also supposed to be used CORRECTLY. If you are attracted to a man (who isn't fictional or famous) then you are not a lesbian. 1 reply
God I’m so sick of this shit.
IF YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO A MAN YOU ARE NOT A LESBIAN! THIS JUST BRINGS BACK THE RHETORIC OF MEN BEING ABLE TO TURN LESBIANS STRAIGHT WHICH (news flash) THEY FUCKING CAN’T! IF YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO TWO GENDERS THEN YOU ARE BI! IT DOESNT MATTER HOW MUCH MORE YOU ARE ATTRACTED TO ONE GENDER THEN YOU ARE TO ANOTHER GEND...... 1 reply
I totally agree with your last paragraph. Labels are to be used to make you feel comfortable, and they are used as a form of self-identity and recognition. HOWEVER, labels are meant to be used CORRECTLY. If you are a lesbian and you fall in love with a man, or have a male partner, you are not lesbian. Sorry, that is not how it works.
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Ok, i just want to say something, thank you for all the people who talk with me respectfully, i appreciate it. I made this based on my own experience, for a lot of time i considered myself a lesbian, but once i tought a guy was cute and i started to like him, so then i said: well, i guess i'm bi. Right now I'm with a girl, and what i feel for her i...... reply
I agree. At the end of the day, we use these labels on ourselves for ourselves, so wanting these characters to identify as something they don't identify with is limiting the diversity that comes with love! reply
ur not a lesbian if u like men lmao. labels are supposed to make people comfortable and that’s so true! BUT they need to be used correctly. if i call myself a lesbian but still like men it’s basically invalidating actually lesbians. it makes it feel like that the label that they are using isn’t even theirs anymore like the words lesbian doesn...... reply
I mean then just don't have a label at all if you're not gonna use them correctly, a lesbian is only atracted to women, no man is an exception, same for a gay man. 1 reply
