Tfw gay people have answered this question like a million times over but instead of listening to us for once y'all go and ask each other instead. 1 reply
ya kinda i think thats the whole point of yaoi. It doesn't really matter if you are unless you are openly telling people, pushing men in real life to be in relationships with other men, trying to get a "gay best friend", or are calling gay people your "bean". Just like, don't read yaoi w minors and keep it to ur self. If you are scared that you are...... reply
I mean at the end of the day, if all us in this room know that this is just fiction, then I don't see any problem. Plus like obviously, non of the relationships work like it does in bl. In here you can just start spitting nonsense and eventually find something that is yaoi. 1 reply
Nah. The fetishizing claims were a creation by tumblr radfems to look woke while trying to control what women can or cannot read. Fetishization implies you read yaoi/bl but then act harmfully on irl gay men, which almost never happens unlike that crowd likes to say. This is why it's different from straight men watching lesbian porn, it's the irl ac...... 3 reply
