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Being alone ? pls tell me your thoughts
I'm an introvert and really shy, I have difficulties to speak and joke around with new people.. so I have only 1 truly friend who I can talk with for hours and a few 'friends' from university. I don't have problems with my family. In fact, I think I'm happy the way it is, I don't feel alone, I just live my life enjooying my hobbies. but then these past few months, others people point out the fact that "i'm alone" .. and it makes me feel miserable and pathetic. Should I change ? make some effort to fit in ? or try to prove they are wrong? but then again why I feel this way if I'm truly okay..?
I should go and see a therapist haha ! anyway just give me you thoughts or experiences if you feel like it.
1-2 good friend is better than having lots of fake friends. The moment you even think about needing to change yourself to fit in with them,dont. If you like and have no problem with being alone,its not a bad thing yknow.
Take it from someone who tries so hard to fit in and ended up being an outcast and alone in my secondary school years bc i fake...... 1 reply
Don't change, you're good just the way you are. It's good to be yourself rather than faking yourself just to fit in. I'm a mix of introvert and extrovert(ambivert), even though i'm outgoing and friendly, i find myself relaxed when i'm alone and talking to someone that i can relate to. I love being alone, but not lonely. reply
