Why would it be fetishizing? If you consider yourself as a man then you ARE a man. If you found out about this because you read BL then its ok too, don't feel like you are doing something bad. Everybody explores themselves in different ways.
Also, not really related to your question and not talking to you directly but for some reason everyone here...... reply
I guess it is if you want to be a gay man just because of sex. I've been in a lil bit similar situation too. Like I wanna be a man because I'm curious if Im still going to be pansexual if I was a man. or how is it going to be with different genders if I'm a man. reply
"Stay respectful please:)" Yeah no, lets not. You right here are the reason I don't want to wake up in the morning, you are the reason I want to go to New York and jump off The One World Trade Center, you are the reason I don't identify as a women, you are the reason I want to bleed out, you are the reason I would like to go to the zoo and jump int...... 3 reply
