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Finding your sexuality
Just curious, how did you guys find out what your sexuality was? I personally found that I was asexual since nothing ever had any kind of effect on me. (；・∀・)
Hm. I thought I was heterosexual for a long while and then I stopped feeling anything for anyone so I assumed I'm asexual..
Now..I just don't care anymore. Must we label or categorise ouserselves in
just about everything? This morning you might feel attracted to a woman but end up sleeping with a man in the evening only to wake up in the morning t...... 3 reply
I'm an 18 year old male, I read yaoi and shounen ai to escape really. I've only told 4 people that I'm bi , and I feel like I will never want to tell my family . My family have sacrificed a lot for me but I feel like I will bring shame on the family. I started to accept the fact that I was interested in guys as well when I focused more on the male ...... reply
I never really had an epiphany that I'm asexual. I'm 24 y/o and still a virgin. It's not like I waited for some guy to come sweep me off my feet, the thought just never appealed to me. I've dated numerous guys and every time we got to that part in a relationship I would get bored and my mind would wander elsewhere so I would just stop it. I have ne...... 1 reply
Since my childhood i always knew i wasn't straight, all my crushes were boys, but i never got a sexual attraction towards them. Until the day i discovered porn, straight porn did nothing to me, actually i was grossed out, so i always went for women and lesbian porn.
I've had the thought that i only am attracted to women sexually but not romantica...... 1 reply
Honestly, because my close friend at the time said she was bi, i was like ok if she's bi im bi :) WHICH IS TOTALLY NOT HOW IT WORKS
however, she did sort of open the door to a new world where i found out that i was attracted to other people who weren't JUST boys.
for a while, i constantly conflicted with myself trying to decide on a sexuality, and ...... reply
I never really had the "Wow! I'm ___sexual!" moment.
Whenever people talked about their crushes, or partners, sexual attraction always played a big role, I never really understood it.
It took me a few years, but I did finally figure out that I am Asexual. reply
For years I identified myself as asexual because I was not interested in anyone but then I realized I'm actually a lesbian that didn't know the difference between friendship and romantic love. When I think about my past it was always there, being jealous of a friend, thinking they were a lot better than their boyfriends, etc. There's actually a BIG...... reply
F/16 I'm so unsure I kinda think I'm asexual but just in the way that I can't love someone and be in a relationship because I will get sick of that person and feel really trapped and stuff but I do like kiss people either it's girl or boy. What confuses me is I once felt like I really loved a boy a year ago I had a crush on him for a long time and ...... 2 reply
I found out I was bi when I met this girl on high school, and...I just really liked her. You know those moments when you don't want to like someone or be interested in them? That's what happened to me, and well...yeah, I realized I was bi. reply
