Sadly, in this day and age even simply saying blm or alm gives u a support, when we don't even know if their saying it for attention or for to satisfy the fans. reply
I'm not quite sure how to answer this, I want it to be a point in life where we don't have to praise someone because they're being good, and that it's just natural for us. But at this point in life it's not exactly possible. I mean if praising gets the job done and it makes more people stop being ridiculous, then I guess it is a flex which is prett...... reply
People really don't...
But for some reason a lot of people get praised for not being Terrible (especially men). I read a book called Awards For Good Boys that went into the way we praise men for bare minimum effort and how that actually makes things worse, and I highly recommend it. reply
nah its not the bar was just set too damn low, unfortunately. even the most basic human decency stuff is already considered an achievement by some which is fuckinf sickening reply
