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Anyone else annoyed by this?

zuko zuko 2021-05-04 00:03:28 About yaoi talk
Okay, so I don't know who this person is, but I'd like to take a hot second to talk about it on here. They're not a user on here thank god, but they have been commenting on a number of JJK DJs. And at first, I had no clue what was going on scrolling through the comments, but man as I went through more I got even more upset.

This user absolutely hates the idea of seme!Yuuji and uke!Megumi for the stupidest reasons ever. Their main one is that, "Yuuji is more innocent and Megumi is more cold". That means one has to top and one has to bottom just because of their personality?? First of all, pleasure is pleasure so stop trying to say that pleasure has to be taken or given due to a personality trait. Second of all, when some people tried to make this user understand that either way was fine - quite respectfully at first and that some people just preferred it one way to another, but there was no need to push that opinion onto others; but this user just kept on pushing that top!Megumi was better and that people couldn't realize that Yuuji so OBVIOUSLY bottoms because he's "cute" and "innocent" and that Megumi HAS TO top because he's so "cold" and "have you seen episode 23?".

Some of their quotes include:

"Deku and hinata are bottoms so is yuji. Soft mcs are always bottoms"

"Don't tell me i'm limited when you can't even see your boy show his big dick energy in episode 23. Think him of a switch at least, cmonnn it's not that hard to accept your chatacter have balls"

"Believe me that I waited months and I didn't see a single top megumi content then I made this acc to express myself, there were 1 after another bottom megumi djs that I was thinking there is something wrong with this fandom that it's only content with him"

"You have a pfp of him being cute and think of him as a top wtf, no logic in that"

"Crazy how megumi doesn't look like a bottom."

A thread of their responses:

"The other way around is cute and makes more sense. Cold anime boys have a very dominent side to them, like todoroki and megumi."

"You're westerner if you think that cold introverts are bottoms the yaoi works which are coming from japan say otherwise

You're either new or westerner"

"He looks like a cold seme from a bl manga. Soft mcs like hinata, deku and yuji are bottoms"

In response to someone finally telling them that complaining on bottom Megumi DJs isn't going to magically make a top Megumi DJ appear:

"Yes complaining will not give me anything but the thing is that I waited for months(without an acc) and this site didnt take into consideration all the jjk fandom. You don't need to repeat yourself I'm deleting them

Ok, i'll go somewhere else cause this site is not much of a fan of the jjk characters"

What do you mean, "not much of a fan"???

Then, when someone finally decided to say that they couldn't keep that sort of minset, where the "cute" one has to bottom, because it's going to leak into their life and influence their opinion on real life homosexual couples - a vaild point. The user replies, "No, I only talk about yaoi here. I have no business with gay ppl's lives wtf".

B*tch TF???

Please tell me I'm not the only one fed up at this point.

Messages

PanickedDoyoung May 4, 2021 12:38 am

I just found another one and ISTG this is the final nail in the coffin

"Fluffy is when the cute one is supposed to be on bottom, at least put them as swich..."

WHAT ARE YOU ON WOMAN???

1evis1ittlea$$hole May 4, 2021 12:20 am

Honestly that person is the exact type of trashy stereotype that anti-fujoshis yell about all the time. They give the rest of us a bad name. I partly blame mangakas for making topping and bottoming a personality in the first place, for decades this has been a problematic stereotype in BL tbh

This is why gay people criticize how gay relationships are portrayed in BL and why we can’t just pass it off as harmless fiction. At the end of the day we live in a heteronormative society that perpetuate ignorant mindsets like that person. BL being so heteronormative for so long produces people like that.

That’s why I’m happy BL is starting to move away from the stereotypes and beginning to portray gay relationships realistically with more respect. It avoids perpetuating ignorant stereotypes around gay men. Hopefully this more progressive shift can scare away heteronormative idiot like that person

JuJu Han May 4, 2021 12:08 am

Oh no the fujoshis are at it again
This is joke don’t crucify me, but anyway people need to understand that it honestly doesn’t matter who’s top or bottom because at the end of the day, it’s all fiction and anyone can imagine whatever they want

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