sorry, but this is a bit...self centred. if you aren't ready to have a committed relationship, then don't have one at all, it almost seems like you're toying with them, ofc they wouldn't want to be your friend anymore.. reply
lol imagine asking strangers on the internet for help because you're too stupid to not be a in a relationship. if you're such a child with no self control then go back to elementary school and learn it. reply
Maybe don't date them unless you truly feel like it's going to last. Think about the consequences of you dating them and also the probability of you guys lasting together. Otherwise you should just stay as friends. It would be much better than dating and breaking up in a short period of time. reply
