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Did I do something wrong?
A few weeks ago I transfer to a new school because my house is too far so my mom transfer me to that new school (right now we're studying online since there's too many covid cases). I thought I won't make any friend until this one day the teacher told us to get into pair and work together for the whole term but we didn't get to pick our partner. My teacher made me get into pair with this girl which we call he lina she's very quiet , sensitive and many more... At first I was texting her because there's a presentation (pair presentation) and surprisingly we have many similarities and we get along pretty well, we texted everyday I don't get along with people much I don't know how to start a conversation personally but I'm pretty confident at texting... And sometimes we even share secrets but everything didn't last that long... 2 weeks ago something happened I was texting her and suddenly there's some error with my phone I couldn't texted her back 2 hours later it's back to normal and I received a notification about her texting me why did you left me on read? I tried to explain everything to her about my phone being error and I thought everything was my fault she's still angry at me for about 1 weeks after that I couldn't receive any notification from her or should I say she didn't text me I thought she was busy so I didn't texted her back since I'm scared that I might bother her I'm scared that I will lost my friend again and again which is normal to me since I experience it many times after that she blocked me and texted me in my other social media saying sorry you're not active so I have to block you but she never told me the reason why? Do you block people who didn't text you for only 1 week? You said you're busy that's why I don't want to bother you. Did I do something wrong? Why didn't you texted me and explain to me what I did wrong? Why didn't you listen to my explanation first? 3 weeks after she blocked me she texted me using telegram (she blocked me on snapchat) I thought she forgave me for something I haven't done but she's just using me to help her with the presentation which I have to make it by myself (it supposed to be pair work) I realized that all her kindness and sweetness are just an act for me to become a tool for her , she never thought of me as a friend. And that's not the end yet... But I still don't understand wh can't she just tell me why? What's the reason? Did I do something wrong? If I do then I'm sorry I didn't mean to hurt anyone I don't want to make anyone suffer like I do.
she sounds like a bitch ngl. did u fully explain to her why u didn't text her for a week? if u did, and she's still behaving like that, then you're better off without her. also, why tf are u making the whole presentation by urself? drag her w u to complete it bruh, bcs the whole thing's really unfair to u 1 reply
I feel you. I had a also had a friend who used me. When I look back now, I’m glad I went through that. I hope you tell your teacher that you did all the work yourself. I’m sure you will be able to make more friends quickly because it seems like you’re a good person. I hope you have a good day! 1 reply
Honestly, communication is the best way to sort out any problems. But apologizing for things you didn't do on purpose, is kinda... Any friendship should be made on mutual understanding, respect and acceptance. I'm sorry but I don't see any of that here. Darling, love yourself more and don't forget you deserve much better than this. 2 reply
Nope. I think she's too sensitive. I also have a friend (Y) like that and every time Y throws a tantrum, I wanna punch Y so bad but, I know it will just make things worse so I tried my best to understand Y. Everything is just so toxic so I ended it.
You don't need those kind of people in your life! Everything will be fine and I know you can find...... 1 reply
Wow she sounds like a horrible person. Dont stress yourself out to much babes you did nothing wrong. Some people just cant accept the fact that the world doesnt revolve around them. If you explained to her that your phone wasnt working right I dont understand why she would be mad at you still. And the fact that you have to now do the project by you...... 1 reply
Nah, it just sounds like she is really sensitive... also, please make sure that you don't just befriend people because you want friends but because you enjoy being with and around that person. Otherwise, it's only going to hurt you if you stay around people that are bad for your mental and emotional wellbeing.
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You did nothing wrong. It's not your fault your phone broke. Idk but I think you're better without that kind of 'friend'. I once had a friend like that and lemme tell you my life's happier without that friend 1 reply
OH SO BASICALLY HAVE LIKE A SIMILAR SITUATION SO I LIVE FAR FROM SCHOOL AND IF I DONT GET GOOD GRADES MY PARENTS WILL THREATEN TO TRANSFER ME AND AND I WAS TEXTING MY BFF SINCE KINDER AND WHEN I LEFT HIM ON READ (for a day) BECAUSE I FELL ASLEEP AND LEFT MY PHONE ON HE GOT MAD AT ME FOR A DAY BUT FORGAVE ME SO YAYY
BUT YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONGG...... 1 reply