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What is my sexuality?
I have been having a lot of questions and confusion about my sexuality. Just before last year I didn't have any confusion about it I legit thought I was straight. Even after learning about lgbtqa+ I wasn't fazed at all. But last year a close friend of mine she wanted to kiss me (we didn't though) and ever since then I have this confusion. Like I still find guys hot (I have some crushes irl too) but at the same time I also think I am attracted to girls sometimes too. I also have had thoughts regarding how I really wish to be a guy. Sometimes I am also like anybody is fine with me. I also find sex disgusting, never watched porn and idk what to do. What should I do?
Hmm, please remember, sexuality is fluid. My friend who is asexual talks a lot about how sometimes the right person makes all the difference. Don't worry about what to say there, and don't get caught up in the labeling, such is the downfall of many greats. They labeled themselves one way and decided to live up to it, or down to it, so just ignore i...... reply
It's okay to be confused I didn't find out till last year that I am "bi" I am not really into labels. Sexuality is fluid you can be mostly "straight" but still have a bit of attraction to women too. It's not black and white like that with sexuality there are many shades of gray and it can change over time within those shades of grey. Hope this made...... reply
I don't know how old you are, but you sound young. I was like this when I was a teenager too. What is a label? Do what feels good, experiment, don't try to overthink it too much and with time you will work it out naturally :) trust me! 1 reply
Being Bi, Lesbian, or Gay is not a bad thing at all. And if you're confused about your sexuality that's not a bad thing either. I went through the same exact thing in my younger days. I was texted by a sexual predator (which I blocked and reported soon after being texted) and I thought I liked girls and I became confused--but I've always known that...... 1 reply
You sound a lot like me, honestly as far as gender goes I’m the same I’ve thought that I might be trans because I wish I was born as a guy, but also I don’t really feel like anything so I’ve used the term agender a little to see if it feels right. Sexuality I go by panromantic asexual, I feel no sexual attraction to others but could feel ro...... 1 reply
the things you've said kind of remind me of when i first started doubting my sexuality.
i was really young and i didn't know anything about sexual orientation beyond homosexual or heterosexual. and it happened to me, too, that i sometimes wished i was a boy, so i used to be so paranoid about being trans or not being comfortable with my gender. i ...... 2 reply
