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wtf kinks were genetical?
TW/// RAPE, SUICIDE
so uh- i heard this a few days ago, i dont really understand how it works but im quite shooketh tbh, im a child out of marriage n i have rape kink ;-; dont come for me y'all, its the trauma.
i def do NOT romanticize this in any way, but things were literally fucked up for me, is not like i entirely believe it, but knowing that i was born bc a non-consent sex n then unfortunately experience the same stuff when i was a child, is really sucks, i had theraphy, but i stopped cuz my parents think that i dont have anything to be stressed about, little do the they know that i almost off myself for the past few years
maybe u wonder why i didnt tell this to my parents or family? i basically cant, things like this was awfully taboo, n since there's no witness or proof so i cant convince anyone either, n it happens years ago
and why did it even developed to a kink? its basically something scared me for years, i dont even know, i def seems contradicting but hey, im confused as well ok, at some point i thought maybe it wasnt a kink, maybe its just bc it stucks in my mind, but idk, wdyt?
so sorry for sharing this question, i just need to ask someone, no one ever really know this irl, not even my parents, i even once live w the perpetrator for a couple months since he was my cousin
Ok first of all i wish you're feeling even a little bit better now that you're sharing this with people. Especially in this site where people are pretty fcking harsh on kinks and kinkshame, just remember that you're incredibly strong for dealing with all of this shit.
Now as for your kink, its normal for you to develop a kink after your assault. ...... 4 reply
I'm just lost "don't come for me it's the trauma" huh?? You grew a kink from not only your own sexual assault but also your mothers..?? And I don't get how you say you don't romanticize it but yet you're also saying you have a rape kink..? Yeah babes you need to go BACK to therapy
the first paragraph feels very jokey like tbh 2 reply
i don't know if it's a kink, to me it sounds like a subconscious way of coping. remember that what happened wasn't your fault. whatever you felt then was a physical reaction and that's all. and your cousin is disgusting.
if you can convince your parents to let you go back to therapy (if you feel okay with telling the therapist this), that would be...... 1 reply
First of all.forgive yourself.what has happened to you is not your fault.you seem lost and confused.I advice you to not engage in rapekink or rape play of any kind because it is clearly self harm.get therapy and love yourself.Remember you are worthy. 1 reply
Don't worry, it's normal after you were assaulted, you need therapy only if you find yourself not capable to live a normal life, if so, please speak with your parents or with a social assistant to get some therapy. Otherwise, no need to get tharapy over kinks, just find someone you can roleplay with if you want and that's it. 2 reply
Once u got that kind of truma that stuck in ur mind or not...
Your life will end up change the way u are now like some kind of trigger in your life with no help unless you find one u really want to be....
My advice just overcome the difficulties in your life now and dont give up..
Like me got my own truma which... nvm.. :)) 1 reply
