Does it hurt?

I'm a female dominatrix and sex health professional. I answer sexual questions like these all the time. First of all, know that it will hurt for a moment, like a pinch when the hymen (the barrier) breaks. Use a lot of lubricants and keep a slow pace. For a moment, it will be uncomfortable, depending on his size. Anything below 7 inches should ......   2 reply

It doesn’t hurt if you’re really wet, in my experience. Although many people say it hurts they probably were not wet enough or idk   reply

It depends on how you go about it. (26 year old female, here! Prepare for redundancy, for emphasis.) Anytime you put a foreign object inside your body, it’s going to hurt. UNLESS! You ease into it, and let your body get used to it. As in… Don’t just stick it in right away. It’s best to start off with a bit of fingering. Start with one, a......   reply

Damn girl 3 years you're giving him a run for his money. Anyways i don't know how you view sex but imop sex is supposed to be fun and make you feel good so don't worry about it girl your partner is patient and you've known him for a long time so there's no need to be nervous about it. I think you should take some time to get to know your body so ......   1 reply

For me it didn't hurt at all...like NOTHING... There was some pressure but that's all... I will however say that I had a patient partner, who wasn't a virgin. I think some of the problem can be, that you're obviously nervous when it's the first time, so it's hard to relax. I do think it would be best if you get familiar with your own body first, s......   reply

It depend, for somme it hurt quite a lot, for others it's almost nothing. There are ways to make it less painful, like foreplay.   reply

It depends on the person. Just ask him to be gentle and, if it hurts, ask him to stop or to go slower. And least but not least, enjoy it. Don't let the fear win you (?)   1 reply