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looking at sum1 and be like "oh he's bottom" "oh he's def a sub" is so weird

artofsky artofsky 2021-05-15 01:09:23 About sth annoying bl lovers do
fetishize mlm relationship and every single guy next to each other

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Haneul May 15, 2021 1:14 am

If it’s real life people it’s definitely weird and even disgusting, discussing people’s personal lives is just wrong and not okay, however if it’s fiction, I don’t see why not, I mean someone is gonna turn out to be a bottom and the other top after all. But if you think even that is wrong then that’s your opinion and I can’t argue with you on that

ksjmoon May 15, 2021 5:51 am

i see ppl do it all the time w real ppl mostly celebrities. the sub/bottom one just kinda reinforces the stereotype of heterosexual relationships where most of the time the buff/masculine looking one is the father/husband/the one who wears the pants in the relationship while the feminine looking one is regarded as submissive/mother/the one under.

bcs when ppl point put who's the sub/bottom it's usually the feminine looking one. it's like asking two men in a romantic relationship who's the mother/wife and the father/husband... like no one is that's the whole point.

i'm not angry btw lol