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How should I come out?
I'm bisexual. I have tried to come out multiple times before. But no success. My mom's heterosexist. I don't even want to want to come out to my father. He'll be disgusted and will disown me. My mom will be disgusted too. But I just want to talk to someone irl. I rlly have no friends so no one to talk to other than my mom. So pls of anyone knows how to safely and convincingly come out pls suggest. I'm in a dilemma here.
from what you said, please dont try to come out they seem like assholes who will try to harm you because of your sexuality, wait until you are stable enough both financially and physically if you are a minor, make sure you tell them when you are not living under their roof reply
I don’t know how to convincingly come out. But u should think about if you are financially stable and over at least 16 years old, cause there is a fair share of shitty parents that kick their kids out of the house. reply
same i'm bisexual too and basically my parents are the exact same. honestly i think you should come out to people you can trust first. like for me, i was/am really scared to tell my siblings about me but my sister kind of awkwardly asked if i was bi : "sooooo... you're like... bi right?" and i just kind of replied with a yes and we went on with our...... reply
If you plan to be courageous and have a plan of your own, being able to support yourself mentally and financially, it's okay to cut them out of your life. After all, it's your life, you're the driver and they're not. If they disown you then it's their loss, it's highly unlikely they'll outlive you so why give af about them hating on you just becaus...... reply
I dont think its a great idea to come out if you have those types of parents. its best to prepare a lot of money beforehand if you want to come out and become independant if needed. 1 reply
First things first, you don't have to come out. Your sexuality is completely normal and fine so you can just have them surprise themselves when you start dating or something. reply
i mean I'm pan, a christian with a chrisrian household but they're not homosexual. But I haven't come out yet since I have a bf rn. But ig you can talk to your mom seriously like just the two of you. Tell her what you want. Cause you see there's no way of coming out that will be 100% sure thay she'll not be mad. But I think the best way to come out...... reply
