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I need advice (idk why im putting this on this site...)
I hope this doesn't get taken down bc im really desperate. My sister has been playing this game for a few years and she was 13 when she met a 20 year old Indian guy on there she told him she was 17 WHICH IS STILL A MINOR, that didn't stop him from getting involved with her romantically. Fast forward 2 years later(now) they're texting and sending photos to each other. She still tells him she's 17(his dumba** didn't realize). The red flags (i mean there are a lot so far) are this guy is very possessive and even made her delete her main instagram account bc he didn't want other people following her. He's also homophobic/transphobic and filling my sister's head with gibberish. HE ALSO GOT HIS PHONE STOLEN IN WHICH HE HAD MY 15 YEAR OLD SISTER'S PHOTOS (not nude just selfies). guys im really scared for her i feel like a disappointment. My parents will never confiscate her phone bc she throws a tantrum. What do i do?!
UPDATE: THE GUY KNOWS SHE'S FIFTEEN AND HAS TOLD HER THAT HE DOESN'T THINK ANYTHING'S WRONG WITH IT. I'M CRYING HOW DO I SAVE MY SISTER?!!
she's been talking to this pedo(?) for 2 years????!!!!
what happened to her common sense?
wow- would u like to hear my other opinion on this case? i dont wanna say it because ur here for advice and its just too direct and mean...but still the truth...and being direct in this case is good
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i cant contain my frustration at this case so imma say it- ...... 2 reply
I can't offer genuine legal advice but what country does he live in? Screenshot all his social media, location, personal information. Screenshot all conversations with him. Every. Single. One. Keep it in a folder like google drive or icloud to prevent losing the files. From context, I don't know if the conversations are sexual or not. Communicate a...... 3 reply
Well I am not experienced in this but I do hope this helps, try communicating with her little by little, help her realize about her toxic relationship. And may I add, damn 2 years? that guy must’ve been desperate to find someone who’s only 13 (at that time) and I do think it’s wrong. Try contacting the guys social too, and if he gets defensiv...... 1 reply
Hmm I would suggest that you don't talk to her straight forward on the topic coz if that guy has brainwashed her then there's a possibility that she won't be in a mind set to listen to you. She might try to do the opposite of what you tell her. Approach the topic in a round about manner, like start from any other usual topic and then slowly bring t...... 1 reply
Honestly just tell your parents.... Idc if she throws a temper tantrum that just shows how much of a child she is.... And for a literal child to be with a 20-year-old is not ok..... As someones that is 19, he sounds no good...... 18 is the youngest I'll go for.....
Also, it really doesn't help that she lied about her age....... reply
there are several ways which you can approach this. it depends how much you want your sister to hate you (for her own good) and be embarrassed by her actions, and how much she'll cooperate.
i'll tell you right now to record and document everything. EVERYTHING. save every past and future conversations, videos, phone calls, pictures, usernames, etc....... 1 reply
